婚姻生活的几点

Be active in the church life.  Every marriage is stronger with God in the middle of it.

要积极投入召会生活，有神在其中的婚姻是稳固的。

Love is a commitment, not a feeling.  Choose to love each other even in those moments when you struggle to love.

爱是一种承担（托付），不只是一种感觉。要选择爱对方，甚至有时候爱不来。（这一点符合林前13章。)

Make time together a priority.  Schedule it.  Consistently invest time into your marriage.

要认真对待相处的时间。把时间排出来。要不间断地投资时间在婚姻上。

Surround yourself with friends who will strengthen your marriage.  Remove yourself from those who may weaken your marriage.  (我很喜欢这一点)

有些朋友会帮助你的婚姻，这些朋友值得交。 有些朋友会损害你的婚姻，远离他们。

Make laughter the soundtrack of your marriage.  Share moments of joy.  Find reasons to laugh.

让你的婚姻充满欢笑。分享彼此的喜悦。

In every argument, there won’t be a winner and a loser.  You are partners.  Work together to find a solution.

吵架的时候没有输家也没有赢家。你们是合伙人，要彼此合作，解决问题。

Never lie to each other.  Lies break trust – the foundation of a strong marriage.

不可用谎言欺骗对方。谎言拆毁婚姻的基础－互信。

When you’ve made a mistake, admit it and humbly seek forgiveness.  Say “I’m sorry.  Please forgive me.”

犯错就承认，谦卑地寻求对方的谅解。赶快说 “对不起，请你原谅我。＂